Dear Baby Stella,
The long wait is finally over. We have been anxiously awaiting your arrival for quite some time now and, I must say, the wait was well worth it. You are exquisite! Such a marvel from God. The moment you arrived, I knew you were meant for our family. You were the missing link to complete our little clan. Though only two weeks old now, it is clearly evident how sweet and friendly you are. You definitely have a voice all your own that demands attention. You share that trait with your brother.
It took some time for me to develop the fatherly bond with your brother, Porter. I think that was partly out of fear and inexperience. That worked well for Porter. He was his own person and more interested in doing things his way and on his own. This time around, I have found that I’m able to focus more on savoring the time I get to spend with you. Also, for you, I think this time is more critical and something you desire. You are happiest and most at peace when being held closely and warmly. God’s timing was perfect. He knew what both of my children needed and brought them in the right order for that to be accomplished.
Stella, a few words on your brother. Since you have been born, he’s wanted nothing more than to play with you. He’s wanted to check on you and help take care of you. I know you two will develop a very close bond over your lifetime. Porter is a little intense and can sometimes be a little overwhelming; however, he does have a kindness deep inside of him that tugs on him when he’s too abrasive. He is a loving brother and will be a formidable protector of you as you grow and mature. You each have a particular importance and impact for each other. Porter is here to toughen you up and help guide you in the right direction as a big brother. You will help soften him and challenge him, both directly and indirectly, by your love and charisma.
Now, for my promise to you. I will give my best effort: to lead you in the right direction, to love you unconditionally, to pick you up when you fall, to provide you safety and protection, to always show you how beautiful you are on the inside and out, to hug and hold you whenever you need it, and to be a good example of how a man should treat his wife and family.
So, welcome to the family, Stella, and thank you for bringing us your bubbly personality and loving warmth. We are going to be making many good memories to come (and your mom will no doubt be blogging about them along the way). It’s going to be a great adventure!
Love Always,
Daddy
